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Updated: 10/13/2007
6/6/2006: My surgery date is set for August 18, 2006! I'm going to have some face work done: Brow boss shaving, scalp advancement and a trachea shave plus a one-stage genital reassignment surgery all in one operation. I need more money! Please if you can spare any at all, I am a little short of what I need, any at all would help out, thank you!
Please help this male to female transsexual who always felt had the heart and soul of a woman. I am asking for monetary assistance to help fulfill my life-long dream by having Gender Reassignment surgery (SRS). Once completed, this will help me feel and achieve the level of womanhood I so desire. More details with my surgeon's clinic and exactly what I am having done here.
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Fem 24/7 since March, 2003, I am a transsexual, "gender bender".
I dress as a woman out of the complete adoration of females, feeling a bond to them that is special. My soul is feminine while I respect women in every way. I have given all my male clothes away.
Started female hormones in September, 2003, doubling the dosage in January always under the doctor's care and as of 6/24/04, taking Spironolactone, an anti-androgen/testosterone blocker that reduces oil production, feminizes my head hair, while also reducing, if not eliminating, most of the body hair. The dosage is currently 200 mg/daily as of late May, 2005.
The results of a blood test taken early August, 2004 showed hormone levels at 112 Estrogen and 33 Testosterone.
Was treated VERY RUDELY at a church as someone escorted out the door simply because I was dressed en femme, I write about it here (a divorce support weekend, prepaid).
Feminism is not just what is seen outside; it is how one feels inside. Gender is between the ears-NOT between the legs! TG'ism in males is more than a desire to wear panties and a bra. CD'ing for many, is the behavioral manifestation of spiritually feeling feminine -- a reflection of all that is nurturing, gentle and spiritual.
There are almost 700 internal pages plus an unusually large number (350) of links, that attempt to entertain, help, educate and enlighten as well as show my adoration for females of all shapes and sizes.
If you are Transgendered or you are seeking information about the subject, you came to the right place. This is the resource of resources!
1/24/2003
There is NO nudity on this woman-friendly site.
It is estimated at least 5-7% of males
wear women's clothes and many more women than that wear men's clothes because
they can! Surveys have shown that 87% of males would rather be born female if
they could.
We look into the mirror and see ourselves as we feel we are inside.
I think it is good to let our vast Transgender numbers be known to the world, like being able to grow long hair or wear ear rings in two pierced ears, we need to get ourselves out of the closet and in front of people. We have the opportunity to win freedoms as the feminists, the women's movement, the civil rights' and the gay movements all have won theirs. THIS is OUR century!
Women cross dress all the time. The difference is perception. Acceptance or rejection by society, one's self and ones mate. More...
The Serenity Prayer
GOD, grant me the serenity
to accept the things
I cannot change,
Courage to change the
things I can, and the
wisdom to know the difference.
Interactive Features: Search,
Surveys,
Personals,
Stories,
Visitor's diaries',
Three archives pages of comments! (Read only) See
What's New
(site log) for changes to this web
site!
Special features!
Recipes: Casseroles, meatloaf, coffee, Christmas dinner, check them out! Write in some of yours!
Advice Gateway
Reviews: Product reviews and recommendations (tips, technique and advice) of particular interest to the CD.
Art: Art-A Pictorial, Cartoons-A Pictorial, Book Reviews, Fashion Dolls- A Pictorial, Movie Reviews, Painting Sparks Bard sexuality Debate, A Perfect Pair: Poem about a purging cross-dresser, Poetry by Jenelle Rose, Pinups-A Pictorial, TG Symbol 11/8/01-Where did it come from?, Vintage Women's Fashion- A Pictorial, Women As Art-A Pictorial.
Women As Art: Throughout history, woman have served as one of natures greatest natural wonders and inspired many great works of art though-out time.
Contributions: Out In Public, Stories, Stories of other individuals. How they
started and they managed to cope. Interview with Nova Gyna, Visitors' Diary,
See Stories
Out In Public: Cross-dress for less, Cross-dressing and Bathrooms, a Dangerous Combination? Cross dresser: Workplace Issues, Eye-look and smile, HOW TO START A SOCIAL/SUPPORT GROUP FOR GENDER PEOPLE, People Must Be Free To Be Themselves, Size 12 and up? Wear what you want, Stories and Experiences, Tacy's Story, TG Support Group Etiquette, What cross-dressers can teach women and more. Send in yours!
Stories: Send in YOURS!
Visitor’s diary: Send in your stories of the first time you ventured out, how it went, what you expected and if it went like you expected... You get the idea! I am hoping that this may help others who are waiting to take that first step but haven't yet.
Genetic Girls
Genetic Girls: Pictorial The gold standard cross dressers all hold themselves up to. Contrary to what some believe on the street, cross dressers are not gay. We very much want a woman as a mate to share our lives with. We want a woman who can understand this quirk of ours to emulate them from wherever that feeling comes from and be treated with dignity and respect and as a the woman we feel inside. We are not competing with women, we are in awe, inspired as have all great artists throughout history have been but in our case, perhaps because of the internet, more than anything else, you see more of us. We have always been here, we just didn't want you to know about us. We have been hiding. Make no mistake, we love women so much, we want to capture their every nuance!
Help and answers for all
Help: This is now a Gateway to other sections but still contains much information itself. These pages are for males, females, cross dressers, transsexuals or girls who want help in anyway that they perceive that I can provide it. Here you can branch off to your particular need:
Coming out to your SO: Cross Dresser (CD FAQ), FAQ-Coming Out, Facing My Fears: Coming out to the Wives, How to Tell Your Wife: A Manual for Love, Let's Talk About Committed, Relationships 4/17/00, Let's Talk With Marsha & Richard (Rachel) Miller 4/17/00, Troubles with Your Wife because You're A Cross Dresser? 11/8/01 (Significant Other) or family: what to be prepared for and what you should have, know and expect. All about Cross Dressing from BOTH points of view, HERS and yours!
CrossDressers: Achieve the Transgendered Form of Your Dreams (MtF,
FtM), Compulsion to Cross-dress, Cleavage, Creating Cleavage by Jenelle Rose,
Women Dress for Other Women, Childhood and Family Dynamics of Male Cross
dressers, Controlling the Urge, Self Help Psychology magazine Article: The Real
Truth About Cross dressing, Temperament, Advice, Appearance, a CD's Purse,
Makeup Tips, Terms and Definitions, Transgender Support Group Etiquette, Cross
Dress for Less, How to Find Lingerie on the Web, LW-bio, Size 12 -and up -Wear
What You Want, Surveying Cross-dressing Behavior, Taping, Discovering
Newsgroups- Article for setting up newsgroups by Jenelle Rose, IRC Internet
Relay Chat: Learn how to set up for chat on IRC, Transgendered FAQ: 11/24/00,
When A Man Lives A Woman By Hannah Betts, The Times, Who We Are - A
Survey of Cross Dressers.
The page also has the advantages and disadvantages of living with a CD, things
you can share or do, depression, transgender facts, places to go and how to
prepare, feelings and thoughts from a female point of view, recommended books
and reading.
Dear Jenelle: "Dear Abby"-type advice column! Send in your questions to me! Where Do I Go For Fetish Fashion?, Looking to meet and be with TS-TV at any clubs or bars in Cleveland OH area, TV/CD/TS/TG bars and night clubs in NYC, Best way to form breasts...
From The S.O.'s: Fun In A Transgendered Relationship?, Now I Know How You Feel,
Sex With The Transgendered Partner- I Like It!, "What do Wives Want?", A Wives'
Bill Of Rights, "But I'm Not A Lesbian!", Dealing With Escalations,
How I Learned My Husband Was A Cross Dresser, Telling Your Children,
"Where is it all going?", A Wife Who Can Accept CD-ing: What It Takes,
Cross-Dressing Doesn't Have To Be A Problem-It Can Be An Opportunity
Health: Beauty Tips by Jenelle Rose, Diet Advice, Happiness, seven ways to start working out, Quick Tips By Jenelle Rose
Lesbians / GLBT:
Make Up: See the Advice section, Getting the look in 10, Make-Up Time Line, Rants And Raves: - Fashion and make up article by Jenelle Rose, Reviews of Product By Jenelle Rose
Men:
Transsexuals:
Traveling: Bars and Night Clubs in NYC, True Spirit Conference: Washington offers a wide range of flavors with food, clubs and stores. The following places cater mainly to the G/L/B/T community. See the key at the end for explanations. Most of the Dupont places are accessible from the Dupont Circle Metro.
Feedback / Interactive: The Gateway to all the pages where you can actually participate or interact with the site! Leave messages, sign the GuestBook-2003, send and email, fill out a feedback form, personals, fill out any of seven surveys, whatever you wish and later comeback and either read what others see or your own, maybe perhaps get a response to something you left! I get a lot of hits here at this site and more all of the time, so go for it! Here is a sampling of what I have you can come back for or what is archived- E-mails, all GuestBooks from the originals, Survey Results, Personals and more.
E-mails: 2006 ~ These include health or advisory tips I give to questions on things like shaving, makeup or getting a feminine figure. Emails from the earliest days of this web site, 1998-2006!
Personals:
Surveys:
Links
Links
Explore
350+ and counting! Featuring fashion, health
tips and resources for the support and
understanding of the Transgendered community for both the CD or TS and
the "Significant Other." This section also has links to
commercial sites separate for the most part
with their logos for wigs, breast forms, lingerie, etc.
Explore
350+ and counting! Featuring fashion, health
tips and resources for the support and
understanding of the Transgendered community for both the CD or TS and
the "Significant Other." This section also has links to
commercial sites separate for the most part
with their logos for wigs, breast forms, lingerie, etc.
My
Personal Plea:
6/6/2006: My surgery date is set for August 18, 2006! I'm going to have some face work done: Brow boss shaving, scalp advancement and a trachea shave plus a one-stage genital reassignment surgery all in one operation. I need more money! Please if you can spare any at all, I am a little short of what I need, any at all would help out, thank you!
Please help this male to female transsexual who always felt had the heart and soul of a woman. I am asking for monetary assistance to help fulfill my life-long dream by having Gender Reassignment surgery (SRS). Once completed, this will help me feel and achieve the level of womanhood I so desire. More details with my surgeon's clinic and exactly what I am having done here.
Help me fulfill my dream! Your donation will go directly towards paying for SRS (Sexual Reassignment Surgery) to complete my dream of becoming a woman.
Politics:
TG Politics: Successful Social Change is a painfully slow
process that can be accelerated by everyone in the TG community always setting a
good
example. Conversely, progress can be reversed by only a few bad examples.
Each of us is at a different point on the "Transgendered spectrum". Each has
made a personal decision about how far on that spectrum they to journey-in other
words, CD,
TV, TG, or TS. When we learn to accept other Transgendered persons for who they
are, then we will grow to become a much more unified Transgendered community.
When we reach that point, the community will achieve far greater results in
terms of changing "public perception" and the discriminations we face every day.
To that end, help people, whether it is by education as a web site or one on
one. Pacifist, activist, TG or straight. Do your part and do whatever it takes
to serve the community.
Headlines: People Must
Be Free, Sex Unknown Two Sexes Are Not Enough, Social Construction of Gender
Historically Changing Meanings of Femininity and Masculinity Part 1, Social
Construction of Gender Historically Changing Meanings of Femininity and
Masculinity Part 2, TrueSelves Understanding Transsexualism by Dr. Mildred
Brown, Gender Therapist, Why women are still waiting to wear the pants
at work, Why skirts still have the edge at work, Women of High Tech
Site Index
Site Index: Complete "Table of Contents" listing of all internal pages within this site.
Song
Lyrics
Song
Lyrics:
Inspired cross dressing,
women-oriented or just enchanting pieces.
Womanhood
Dedicated to the spirituality and desperation felt by both
genders, and the utter turmoil felt by some to be consumed by the passion
to be who they cannot. Read e-mails as well, tell your own stories and pain and
share with the world how you feel.
Headlines:
About a Boy Who Isn't, Being a Kid is a Drag-on-Screen: More and More
Gender Roles Are Explored from a Child's Perspective on Film, Berdache Tradition, Breast Implants: Many women look at
themselves in the mirror and wish for a more feminine figure-Despite several
years of controversy, breast implants are now more popular than ever before, COGIATI: Combined gender identity and
Transsexuality inventory test, Confused
about my sexuality, Conservative men in conservative dresses, Cream May Stop Facial Hair Growth, Gender Switch Teaches
Empathy, Hair is on Woman's Minds, Heart and Soles, Here S/He Is,
High Cost of Babe Hood, High-tech defense, I want my shirt back, If Life Were A
Salad, Latest Trend in Underwear May be Brief, Lifting the ‘curse’, One
day in the Garden of Eden 4/17/00, Protect yourself, High-tech Devices Come to
Defense of Women, Teen-age `Cross-gender' Boy Sues to Wear Female Clothing, 20th Century Transgender History And Experience, Why . . ., WHY IT'S GREAT TO BE A WOMAN, Why Women Are Bored In Bed, Women Dress for Other Women, Womanhood E-mails
This web site is an ongoing project, with an honest intent, for all people to peruse.
Thank you for visiting. Your comments are welcomed. Send E-mail.
Please let me know how I am doing and what you would like. Thank you!
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More from intro above
Women cross dress all the time. The difference is perception, acceptance or rejection by society, one's self and ones mate.
Included on this web site are Internet links for the significant others.
They are provided to gain insight into cross dressing.
When you explore these links, you will see the loneliness of being in the closet. There is the desire of the cross dresser to share his other side with his or her Significant Other. He or she was dual gendered when you met, courted, and married. He or she is the same person now.
With a male cross-dresser, he can be an even more loving and caring spouse than you ever imagined. When nurtured, you may find him many times more helpful with chores which society feels is a woman's job.
Sexually, you may find that when en-femme, he will be more attentive to your physical needs as well as more tender and gentle in love making. Most important is the fact that he loves you to the point of sharing an intimate side of his gender that few wives ever know.
For every one of us who shares this side of our life, there are many more who are still afraid of being open to their most trusted partner and helpmate. Many keep this a secret from family, friends and even spouses.
It is a time for sharing and growth in your relationship. Allow time to learn of this other side of their nature. Develop new ways to communicate. Make this uniqueness a positive factor in your marriage and take the time to share in a new adventure.
The above is from SO Page
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